fantacizing.....

There are people you will always wait for. You want them to be a part of your life, to approve of your decisions, to love you in the way you love them. Even if they say, in so many words, “I am not interested,” you will choose to interpret it as a temporary speed bump instead of the road block it was intended to be. You can lose months, years, waiting for someone who has already made it clear they have no desire to catch up. You wait for them largely because you think that, in the time between now and when they realize they actually care about you, you’ll be able to change into the person they likely want you to be. You’ll be wittier, thinner, happier , and more fun. You’ll have become the person you know you’re capable of being, and they will have magically realized that they were wrong. There are people who make you wait. Worse still than those for whom you wait of your own volition, these are the people who know they have a certain amount of control and influence over your life a...

If you are single, do you feel that you are judged for that reason alone? Do people make assumptions about you that they might not make if you were coupled? Do you think it is worse if you are single beyond the age at which people expect you to be married? To be stereotyped is to be prejudged. Tell new acquaintances you are single and often, they will think they already know quite a lot about you. They understand your emotions: You are miserable and lonely and envious of couples. They know what motivates you: More than anything else in the world, you want to become coupled. If you are a single person of a certain age, they also know why you are not coupled: You are commitment-phobic, or too picky, or you have baggage. Or maybe they figure you are gay and they think that’s a problem, too.             They also believe they know something about your psychological development and your psyche: You are just not as mature as the other p...

  Well this post may concern many kids and may prove a journey down the memory lane for many ,for some else it would be a stab on there wounds.. Well…when a couple plans a family ,the obvious first thing they decide about together is a KID.The first kid of family is always special and shares a special bondage with everyone.The family always tries to give the best of whole world for the kid.The special attention and kindness rendered on kid is no doubt natural and overwhelming it throws a negative effect on the future generation to come. Wen the couple has a second kid its mostly done accidently or else just as a matter of expansion of family,this proves to give a negative effect on the minds.Though no doubt the elder child is always the more matured one.None would disagree to fact that the second child always remains the second hand holder. From the cram of the baby ,to the first bicycle he rides,to the school uniform,to books ,he sadly has to try and relish on the second hand...

  Day by day time rolled on.From being a confused student became a much the same confused intern.Not much change of situation except for the half tag of DOCTOR attached to the name.The journey to reach here was not a kids play by any means too.Only a fellow dental being would well understand the efforts that goes to pass a final year exam.From clearing seven subjects ,to finding patients,to giving a practical exam in extreme conditions.Nothing is a child's play.Atleast not for normal, mediocre,self made students like me.The only day of life till date when i felt happy to become a dentist was when i got my final result that i had passed.That was the only and last proud moment of being a dentist,and that was because no one would want to go through this harsh turmoil again. Now the true life opened up.People address you as doctors,while you haven't a clue to perform the most done dental procedures people ask you,”beta,ab to settle na life mein.Doctor bann gaye.”u smile on outsid...

    Only one who devotes himself to a cause with his whole strength and soul can be a true master. For this reason mastery demands all of a person . Albert Einstein HI…I am the soul… I am no fantasy character nor am i a creation of imagination of a writer.I am a part of human mind that's hidden anywhere deep down inside everyone.I am a slave of my masters mind.But i have the power to change a man…I make a difference of life and death for people.. Well i am here to discuss some important stuff with my fellow beings.All my masters life,the body has gone through pain.Be it the pain of birth,or the bruises and cuts of childhood or the agony of love loss or bankruptcy.I keep a close watch on all the stuff that happens and endure every bit of the strange world till my masters last breath.. I have been in contact with my fellow human souls..and every one of there masters have the same problems.humans are a strange creature.god had bestowed THE MAN with the greatest blessing..an...

Well..frankly speaking i wasn't much into twilight till two years back when my best friend introduced me too it and i started reading it out of curiosity.being a romantic at heart i started being submerged completely in the fairy tale romance.Edward was the perfect man[though his a vampire and not a man] and Bella the idealized teen and Jacob the perfect teen with his sculpted body…the story had such a perfect description of ROMANCE,LOVE,DRAMA… Common yaar..as a girl who wouldn't want a romantic,faithful and dependable boyfriend as Edward.he started emerging as the idealized boyfriend material all over the world that any girl would want.and on other side there was Jacob the masculine sexual god figure.smart,sexy and tough on outside and tender and lovable inside.a person like him can make any hard girl drool to have him and want him.twilight opened up a whole world of imagination for girls like me.till now girls used to dream of prince charming on a white horse,while tw...