Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts. -Einstein.
about my second post.i was confused on what to write that aptly suited me and that mostly any person can also easily relate.after having pondered a lot i came to conclusion that whats better thing to write about then life.everyone is living it 365 days 24-7 but most of them don't know what actual meaning life holds.
I have always been a philosopher and advisor to all my friends which made them live a better life.Never do many people know what made me so experienced to talk so high end philosophy.One thing that surprises me about me sometimes when i compare myself with others of my age is that not many can so easily talk so frank about whats wrong with them rather then whats best in them.Cant understand why do people beat around the bush lieing when its so easy to speak up!!
i would be very much over emphasizing if i say that life's not been good to me.but you know life has never guaranteed us that it has to make us feel good.and feeling good is how your state of mind is and not what life gives you.A person on road can be happy but not a millionaire.its true.THE MORE PHYSICAL COMFORT YOU GET THE MORE SAD YOU WOULD GET.the reason can be greed ,lust ,ego anything.
Now looking at my life some years back . it seemed perfect.i was lucky enough to get everything i want always.i had a perfect life.best of family ,best of everything i want.but still grounded due to strong values inculcated by mum and dad.but i had always been the spoiled one out of two siblings.but the thing i loved about my childhood was the utter rawness of myself.never knew what life meant,unaware of troubles.thanks to my convent education i always had a nature of helping out people,believing them and helping all.
but life has a way of teaching things.WE KINDA BEHAVE GOOD WITH BAD PEOPLE AND BAD WITH GOOD PEOPLE.this describes my whole life.in school days some bad experiences on trusting people made me a changed person.my faith on god ,on goodness was broken.and sadly from the day i started being bitchy I was happy and people too were happy with me.i was surprised.when the world talks of being good,being true,why doesn't it have a strength to endure such a person?why does it crushes on ground such a person?
The innocence of life vanished,the truth and its charm had gone.the world changed me for no good.but one thing i need to tell that however sarcastic,wrong or faithless life i lived it never ever did change my inside.and i don't think there's anything wrong in treating the world the way it treats you.i am not a follower of gandhijis satyagrah.i wouldn't give another side of my face when someone hits me on one side.in today's world its also irrelevant to follow that too.but everything has a right way of doing and that too in a right way.
i don't say i haven't made any mistake.i have made.and trust me on that a lot more then most of you have.being an introvert person i have went though lot because of it.never can i share it nor can anyone know it.so it kind off made me strong as i myself needed to get up on my feet whenever i fall down.
i always felt i have nothing in my life.no love ,staying away from parents,no one to care when you sick ,no one to share your grief with.negativism had encroached me to such an extent i had lost touch with my inner soul.had become solely dependent on other people for happiness rather then myself.had taken the wrong road to life that lead me nowhere but to just repent for it for rest of life.
but realization always happens for good and you realize what you doing.i did too and that lead me too a more intellectual and philosophical view of life.i became understanding people and there life's and it made me happy to be of some help to people.humbleness isn't something i have nor i wish to have but my attitude helped me keep a glass shield around me that kept dangers away from me.
so people…i am not saying i had any drastic transformations in me ever nor did i ever did something that worthwhile still.but whats important is that WHAT PRECEPECTIVE YOU HAVE FOR LIFE.looking now at my life now i am happy no matter i am having same problems still but hey..i always have best of many things that not many can get..blessed i am to have best of family ,some good friends ,financially secured life.looking at good things and keeping the bad experiences at ur feet to use as something to climb upon to reach the top.
LOVE UR LIFE.LOVE THE WAY IT IS.SOMEONE SOMEWHERE ISNT LUCKY ENOUGH TO GET WHT YOU HAVE IN YOURSELF.EVERYONE IS UNIQUE.DONT HATE SOMEONE BECAUSE OF SOMETHING U HEAR ABOUT THAT PERSON BUT TRY AND UNDERSTAND THE DEEPER SELF.STOP BEING SELFCENTERED AND HELP OUT PEOPLE.TRUST ME IT WOULD MAKE YOU FEELGOOD WITH INNER SELF.
SO MY DEAR FRIENDS .ENJOY EACH AND EVERYTHING IN LIFE..good or bad it has a reason to happen.the new sunrise is just around the corner.never change for anyone.i may not be bestest person but yes i am best of what i can make of myself.enjoy each day as it comes because you never knows whats going to happen tomorrow.stop worrying about life,about future.never plan your future.just direct your way.enjoy your passions and tell the people you love how much you care about them.life isnt a fairy tale for all even me but it never stops me from dreaming ,from visions of a perfect life and trying to do everything i want.
i have heard people saying that i always wanted to do this or do that.then what the heck !do it!why to wait for perfect time when you can create your perfect time.god doesn't want anyone of us to be sad.then why do we relate everything with god that this isnt what a good girl or good boy should do?everything is good if done in a good way.problems are a part of everyone's life.no ones lucky enough to not have it but you must know how to handle it.
hearing my life's uncertainties and ups and downs hope it cheers many people that they are not the only one caught in a miserable life.but i found a way of happiness and wish everyone around me also find it too.and it would make me more then happy if my experience makes them lead a good life
dedicated to sr.shaly my inspiration for my life.wherever she is.and all my friends for being for me for what i am
you know u think ppl are subdivided into different types and so on..
ReplyDeletei think we are all the same..
slaves of circumstances..
we all do what we are compelled to do, to fulfill our purpose..
a girl may bitch about you because she has to gain something from it.
a thief steals because its just not his day and he cant get a job to fill his own stomach..
what im driving you towards is that the world has always been the same..
u didnt realize this bcz in a way ur mind ignored all that was unnecessary..
the difference is the blindfold is off your eyes now.
have a good life..
Nice article....and may be u r right abt the facts of life....but people know how to handle there own life and i think one should know...if a person is consulting others for their problems and not listening to there soul or own thoughts then believe that person has no right to live....or i should say he has no self respect....
ReplyDeleteAnd being ur friend i knw u are too strong girl and very self made.... and thats the best quality of you :)
abhishek,vyas:just wanna say life is beautiful and we are no one to comment on anyone..i feel happy that i can be help of someone..just live for urself as i alwaqays say...
ReplyDelete@hannah: well written girl, like the soul of the article, you should check out this book called "The Secret", it puts forth a nice philosophy about what life is, how life is and why it is the way it is...in a very convincing manner...especially some of the thoughts that you have expressed here are on similar lines..
ReplyDeleteOn a personal note some parts that I could very well relate to is that "WE KINDA BEHAVE GOOD WITH BAD PEOPLE AND BAD WITH GOOD PEOPLE"...I have seen this happen time and again, in-spite of being aware of this fact.
Keep writing...cheers!!